This few weeks, i have been going thru a lot in my life, things that i never expected, i cant believe i dealt with it, thank god zahr was there for me ...well not all the time...but i appreaciated his help and concern he shows. well im glad the dark clouds are over, but the future is still uncertain to me.
My parents have been stressing me about income...im still free and easy even after i finish my sch...zahir too kept blaming me for being too free, money, money, money well then again it makes the universe going ard<>
Rite now, im facing problems with my relationship with zahir, u noe whn both parties demand what they want, it gets tough to fulfill each other whn both wants tis thing called understanding...Zahir is very busy indeed, well although he's not a businessman, he works like all day n niteevery single dae, most often he will be at serangoon after work and continues to be there till 1,2,3 am in the morning...bcos of this, i don get to c him much often, i REALLY REALLY MISS HIM ALOT, i yearn for his time to be there with me and spent it. things aret the same whn we were newly together last time. last time for the first few months, the dating period, he' not that busy, i meet him almost everydae in a week like 6/7 daes.... now its rarely for me to even meet him up..
Often enuf, almost all the time, i was the one who who ask him whether to meet or not... giving it a thought. i juz realise that all this while after all the months we have been together, he had never been the first one to ask me out, it has alwaes been me.. now its no wonder that things gone worse... i was the one crazy for him, not him... does that mean he doesnt love me?
understanding? demands? i alwaes stress my cadets about voicing out what u want, but after voicing out what u want, well its difficult to grant it then...oh man, saying what u wan is a gd thing cos only then, ppl will noe what u want, but what if they cant accept or even grant it for u?
Zahir thinks that bcos im not working and im carefree, i have all the time in this world, thats why i want to c him like anytime, the fact is all this while we met recently but i was merely tagging along siting in the lorry following his ard doing his stuff, not our stuff.. do u call that spending time? well yes generally i was there , he was there too, but we didnt do things together, i merely tag along and see and wait till he finishes his work, and after that he sends me home.. thats it nothing more...
whenever i ask him out, he will start to compare th malay community and his. saying that i wan him to follow like the malay boys bringing their gals to window shopping, catch a movie la, go hotel la, eat dinner la... how unreasonable! isnt these are some ways to do activities together and spent time just for the both of the parties? thn what does zahir prefers to be called as healthy activity for a couple?
i really hope that i can reach him and make him sees my point of view and fulfill it...cos i really miss the times whn we really spent together nt doing each other things, but just two of us doing things that we are happy with TOGETHER...
6:34:00 pm
.The MoTivAToR.
Pix Of Us!
My Planner
End of Feb 2008
--> get a stable full time job
-->L1 Coach assesment
-->Car prac to be done wif!
Peeps BDAEs
AYAh --- 01th JAN 1954
Khal --- 05th JAN 1988
ela --- o4th FEB 1990
WAn --- 26th FEB 2008
ISKandar --- 02 MAR 1988
miNe --- 24th MAR 1988
Erny --- 25th MAR 1989
SAmeer --- 14th APRIl 1987
MUM --- 23th APRIl 1947
nana --- 03th JUNE 1993
LI --- 4th JULY 1988
MAssI --- 7TH OCT 1988
rYzMAn --- 10th OCT 1988
LAn --- 12th NOV 1968
HAfiZAh --- 25th NOV 1988
fir --- 26th NOV 1987
I want to call the stars down from the sky
i wanna live a day that never dies
i wanna change the world only for u
All the impossible i wanna do
i wanna hold u close under the rain
i wanna kiss ur smile and feel the pain
i noe whats beautiful, looking at u
in a world of lies, u are the truth
and baby everytime u touch me, i become a hero
i make u safe no matter where u are
and bring u everything u ask for,nothing is above me
im shining like a candle in the dark, when u tell me that u love me
i wanna make u see just what i was
Show u the loneliness and what it does
you walked ino my life to stop my tears
everything is easy now i have u here
and baby everytime u touch me i become a hero
i make u safe no matter where u are
and bring u everything u ask for,nothing is above me
im shining like a candle in the dark when u tell me that u love me
In the world without u, im alwaes hunger
what i need is your love to make me stronger
and baby everytime u touch me i become a hero
i make u safe no matter where u are
and bring u everything u ask for,nothing is above me
im shining like a candle in the dark, when u tell me that u love me
when u tell me that u love me
Cravings
-->*ThE Wanted*<--
♥ Crumpler Sling bag [the big one].
♥ A shoe & a sandal.
♥ A driving & a riding licence.
♥ N95 Hp.
♥ A new lappy.
♥ A haversack from Karrimor brand!
-->*Wishings*<--
♥ To be a good muslim and a great person with the guidance of prohphet and the way of ALLAh
♥ Have a comfortable life with financially stable.
♥ Have someone to share everything wif.
♥ Understand the meaning of my life and do better.
♥ Have a powerful MIND.
It's Me The MoTivAToR!
NameSs : HahagaLeha hahagal leha sala haha ha SALAd
Status : "In a relationship && a GRADUAND"
School : Nanyang Polytechnic-->School of Information Technology [SIT]-->Diploma In Information Technology [DIT]
Interests: Sports Soccer Camps Kayaking Adventure Training chocolates[Dairy Milk CADBURY] Dressing Up
Fast Foods : Double BBQ Turkey Bacon @ Burger King Double cheeseburger N MCSpicy @ MacDonalds Zinger Burger @ KFC
Home-Made Foods : Lauk Lemak Cili Padi Lauk Bayam wif Fishballs Beef Rendang Mee Soto Mee Goreng Nasi Goreng
Lauk Fish Curry Nasi Lemak Sop rusuk kambing [I LOVE IT THE MOST!]
Outside Foods : Mutton Chop Claypot rice[CHICKEN] Roti Prata BOM with Cheez @ Simpang BEDOk [SPICEz] Kuew Teow Pattaya @ Simpang Bedok [SPICEz] Roti Naan with mutton Curry @ near mustafa centre
Nasi briyani Dam chicken @ haig Rd mud pie @coffeebean blueberry cheescakes@coffeebean